The day of love is quickly approaching and whether you are spending it with your partner, your hook-up buddy, or by yourself, practicing safe sex is crucial but doesn’t have to mean dull. Sex should be fun and feel good, but it’s easy to get stuck in rut even in the bedroom department.
Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity for you to take a hotter approach when it comes to your sex life. So, if you’re looking to spice up the bedroom this Valentine’s Day, then keep reading for some seductive tips.
Grab Toys
If you’re going to splurge on flowers and chocolate, then don’t skip out on a gift that will last much longer. Sex toys are a great way to mix things up in the bedroom while adding some novelty. Not only are they great to add some excitement, but they will increase your chance of reaching an orgasm. Consider introducing your partner to your favorite sex toy if you already have a favorite in mind. Sex toys and other pleasure products are a great tool to better understand each other’s bodies and intensify the experience. If you’re new to the world of sex toys, then don’t fret. Pleasure products come in all shapes and sizes, so all you have to know is what type of sex you and your partner like to have, or what turns you both on. Once you have an idea of the experience you want, then choosing a sex toy will be a fun and naughty experience.
Plan Ahead
If you want to add some sex back into the day of love, then don’t wait and think ahead. Plan a pre-Valentine’s Day shopping trip to set the stage for later. Lingerie shopping is a great way to tease while giving each other a taste of what is to come. Planning ahead should also include any “in case of emergency” supplies you might need. If you’re planning an all-day sex fest, then you’re going to need some lubricant to reduce any discomfort and enhance pleasure. Water-based lube is your safest choice for penetrative sex, masturbation, and sex toy play, while flavored lube is great for oral sex. Additionally, if you struggle to last long in the sheets or maintain an erection, medication like Tadalafil can allow for more spontaneous sex, as it helps maintain an erection for longer without all the guesswork on when to take it. Spontaneity is great but when you plan ahead, you will be ready for anything.
Play A Game
There’s no better way to add a twist to your foreplay than by incorporating a seductive game. There are a ton of adult sex games online but if you’re looking to spice up a classic, then consider playing a sexier verison of scavenger hunt. Set a timer and keep the objects bed-room related, like a wooden spoon or a blindfold. By the end of the day you will have everything you need for a passion-filled night. If you and your partner are looking for something a tad more simple and to the point, then try erotic dice. A set of dice that feature commands and body parts for naughty combinations. Truth or dare is another classic game that can easily turn provocative and help you and your boo thang explore your sexuality in and out of the bedroom.
Experiment With Each Other
Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to shake up your normal bedroom routine. If you have always wanted to experiment with different locations or positions, then make a sex bucket list, and ask your boo to make one too. Once you both have your list then you can get down to business, as creating a list also helps remove the awkwardness from having to think on the spot. Everyone has fantasies, so talk about them! Role-playing is an exciting way to showcase your fantasies in a kinky and thrilling way. Whether you’re role-playing as a fitness instructor and client or an artist and their subject, don’t forget to include some props to really set the mood. Experimenting with one another requires two things, consent and leaving your inhibitions at the door.
Pleasure should be a priority this Valentine’s Day, so shake things up, and don’t forget to have fun with one another. Whether you try one or more things from this list, what’s important is that you stepped out of your comfort zone, because you’ll never know how much you love tying up your partner unless you try it.
